Spiritual teachers, philosophers and many other wisdom writers have written about the soul mate image. Not just anyone can fulfil you the way your soul mate will. There’s a world of a difference between your soul mate, your heart’s other half and a life partner. All other person tends to lack the elements to fit perfectly to you. Your soul mate makes you feel entirely whole, healed and intact, like no piece is missing from the cosmic picture. Nothing is left out. When one looks at nature, one learns about division and reunion. The human condition is all about union. In many lifetimes we search for the perfect union. The soul’s journey craves completion. The soul is always speaking to us through the resonance of truth felt within the whole body as love and bliss. So by developing oneself spiritually, one gets nearer and nearer to finding the perfect life partner. The constant search for the perfect fit creates true loneliness. One feels like half a human being as nothing can and will create true fulfilment. So the search goes on outside of our self. Hopeless feeling comes from our own negativity and focus of attention.
As we focus on negative thought, we will start to attract negative issues within relationships. The gender of male and female also carry inner male and female realities. We have the strongest alpha male women attracting the weakest sensitive man who will break their heart over and over again before the relationship will eventually end in disappointment and a waste of time. Together with the actual outer male and female, it makes it difficult to maintain harmony due to the strong ego of the alpha male women and the week sensitive male.
All our life experiences where love is concerned are equally supported and challenged to create in us a greater awareness of what could be or what is possible. Limitation creates safety and risk-free actions, but with limitations, life becomes dull and less interesting. As one awakens, one perceives themselves as not alone and separate from their good. Instead, one becomes aware that they are in the process of becoming more. As one awakens through soul connection they start to experience love within their body. One becomes less fearful and their attention and focus on reaching their objectives is their main aim.
Daily growth happens when we are equally supported and challenged. The spiritual journey is equally supported and challenged. Since I have started to see that my challenges are God’s good to help me grow and the feeding of love are God’s love encouraging me to believe everything is possible. A new deeper sense of gratitude and understanding enters my mind and is experienced by my heart. This sensitivity allows me to become aware of the ever-growing support and challenges keep me on the upward path to true awareness. So as one embraces the true path to greater awareness, one sees the good in all relationships as a process to a greater awareness of the principles of what love is.
Circumstances in my life have created a greater awareness of God’s love for me for which I am grateful for. Growth can be hard as we all have to learn to let go and accepts all life experiences which are given by the Divine intelligence of God through the Son. Son being the impulse felt within our body as the feeding of love from the intelligence of God at our level of awareness of what love is and the reason for us to experience it in our own body without which life is meaningless.
All connection are given to each of us through the “Law of Attraction” and the soul’s desire to find completion in any one lifetime. “Be ye perfect as My Father is in Heaven”, Having focused thoughts that empower your partner and help them grow to be the best version they can become, will create joy and bliss within our own body as that is confirmation of our own soul desire and purpose. Through what causes us to focus on another, our heart and mind blend into wholeness. The interior male or female find the exterior male and female which create wholeness, which is felt within the body as love. Remember, the inner being relates to the guiding spirit within our heart that create the point of attraction and knows why this connection is happening and why it is necessary for soul growth.
A life partner, on the other hand, is different, can be a great supporter and can fulfil some of our emotional needs, but if all our emotional needs are not met, our thoughts become dissatisfied and problems begin. It takes a great deal of understanding and wisdom to then take the next step. As our separate mind will project deficient thought about our own imagined thoughts on to the screen of life which will manifest at some time in the future. It becomes limited in his or her capacity to enrich your spirit. For within our hearts, is the memory of the bliss and the true knowing of the divine love we all seek. As a spiritual adviser and reader, I come across many relationships and different dynamics occurring within the people that put their trust in me. All problems stem from the lack of fulfilment together with questions that require answers, which the partner is not ready to talk about. Usually, these are past relationships, where feels have not been dealt with. The feeling of not be able to be responsible for positive actions that meet the emotional needs of the partner. This creates thought of lack of satisfaction which attracts reason for our mind to create deficient thoughts of unloving nature which cause problems as the emotional needs fail to materialize. This also creates judgments which create a separation of what love is. Love is non-judgmental, unconditional and challenges us to grow. Taken time with relationships develops the soul qualities which will tell us our partner’s emotional needs. As one fulfils their partners emotional needs and truly one goes through soul growth and expansion of consciousness. Love expands consciousness. One develops a greater awareness of what love is. Breaking the partner emotional needs create separation.
Most of us remain in life-partner relationships because we “settle” for less and as time goes on we fall out of love and create great misunderstanding for others. Then the loneliness starts again for a multitude of reasons, particularly because the inner connection of spiritual union cannot be experienced. Firstly, we may have a real subconscious fear of being alone. Secondly, we cannot settle for less. Within the grand design, we’re biologically designed to fall in love. It’s only natural that we pair up in this world. But we sometimes prolong our painful experiences to resenting our partner and wish he or she would go, but the thought of loneliness causes attraction and repulsion due to the fluctuation of our thoughts and what we daily focus on through habit. We then experience our project fears coming from the separate mind becoming real. Moment of awareness happens when we become aware that our present partner does not show by actions that they are capable of love. On top of that, they do not meet our emotional needs. The spirit within is starved and we feel alone.
Some relationships are meant to be temporary relationships but we mistakenly settle into them for good. This creates resentment and judgment about our partner. Then with unloving thoughts, we attract our own created thoughts as our experiences. There are relationships which must last for a certain period of time due to the “Law of Karma”. The release from karmic can be a great wakeup call in the chapter of one life.
This creates understanding for need of growth. Allowing us to move forward and pursue other relationships. Relationships which we’re meant to be, for the purpose to have children with our partner, to teach responsibility to them but not necessarily remain with them, and relationships which are just learning to express love outside of self. One can see relationships are confusing because a melting pot of emotions and the fluctuation of thoughts and feelings within the human conditions don’t allow us to see our predestined path.
As I read the auras and work with the inner group of Divine teachers, I receive wisdom and truth of every situation which is the perfect reflection of “I Am All That I Am” at my level of awareness, it has be intuitively being received to guide and change the consciousness for the support of those who are now awakening into greater awareness of what love is.
As an energy intuitive psychic, being sensitive to spirit “The Inner teacher” working in my thoughts through the confirmation of the resonance of truth felt within my own body wisdom, I am informing my readers to work and open up to your greater awareness of what love is. In my own experience with Divine wisdom being intuitively given to me and for all who desire truth, is what fills my heart with joy, bliss and wisdom. Then, I pass on actual love and awareness of spirit as your own body wisdom, peace and love to shed light into any and all situations. Within my articles I speak from my own experience, all types of situation and life conditions where couples who married to their childhood loves, to people in their change of life, or coming up to retirement years who still struggle with commitment and have not learn to meet the partner’s emotional needs. All are learning divine wisdom the hard way. Even those who know nothing about love, who search everywhere but fail to experience love at any level. We all need help and guidance and being here for you is what fills my heart with Divine wisdom and truth. We all fall somewhere between these two extremes, meaning that we experienced several relationships before finding the person we believe to be our perfect pairing.
Know that the spiritual growth is the journey, not the ego ideal. If you feel you need a greater understanding of your present relationship, past relationship, or desiring a new relationship Learn to still the separate mind. If you currently married, in a relationship, or contemplating entering a relationship with a new love interest, it is important that your emotional needs are met and that you realize the point of attraction has been given to you to grow spiritually, emotionally, and with fulfilment and within the dynamics of your relationships that you know what role this person will play in your life. After all, there’s no avoiding the inevitable, problems that will attract a certain type of experiences. Often there comes a time within all relationships where uncomfortable questions we must ask ourselves require to be answered.
Our thoughts are constant, giving rise to fluctuations in how we feel. As we harden our hearts, we block love and create resistance to the inner knowing of the spark of God “the Inner Teacher within”.
By: Thomas McAuliffe